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working mom in need  

Please help mother of 4

Hello,

I am a 32 yer old mother of 4 two girls 12 and 4 and two boys 6 and 2. I was doing ok financially at my currant job, but my job had a pay cut and now I'm not making enough to make ends meet. I was ok when it first happend in January. Then things started going wrong. First my oldest daugther started getting in trouble in school,then my boys got sick. This made me miss alot of time from work and all of my paid time off was gone so it was leave without pay. So now I'm in a very bad money crunch. I have an eviction notice, I'm 2 mos behind on my gas and electric, my car was towed, I'm backed up on my daycare co payments and the list gose on. My credit is very bad due to pass mistakes so no bank will give me a loan,I tried payday loans but it wa not enough and then the loan fees are crazy. So to sum it all I need about 5000 to get out of this situation. I don't usually ask for money I work very hard to make ends meet but now I really don't know what to do I have childern to take care of and I am falling apart. Please help.

 

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Mom in need

 

 

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KaylaMT  

About KaylaMT

Hello,

I am 22 years old and I have a one and a half year old beautiful baby girl. She is my life. I was laid off work in Feb of 2008 and started receiving unemployment benefits at the end of the year. I began receiving the extension and then, of course, congress cut it off. I started taking online classes in the beginning of this past April by getting student loans. I live with relatives but I still have to pay for my cellphone and internet bill (to continue going to school), I have to buy my baby's diapers and buy food for her and myself. I can't get a job because I have no car. I also have to worry about begging people for rides to get my baby to the doctor. The relatives I live with can't really help more than giving us a place to live, and I really am grateful for that but I desperately need to get some kind of money coming in so that I can pay the bills I have, and try to save up for a car. I must get money so that I can provide daily things for my daughter and myself. I have tried everything I can think of on the internet including starting my own business with Herbalife but I don't have money for advertising so I  have no customers and have been making no money from that. I have actually lost money. I really don't know what else to do. Can someone please tell me how I can get some cash coming in to buy diapers, food, get some money to get on my feet, and pay my internet and cell bill so that I don't have to drop out of school and start paying student loans. Thanks and I hope everyone has a great day!

Kayla in Alabama!

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Angels Over All  

Mother of 9 Pray that prayers will get answered for kids christmas! WE NEED HELP PLEASE!

I know that there are families suffering all over. And God and his Angels can only helped them out one at a time. So what I am asking is for some of us that can do certain things for others is to pay it forward how ever you can!.I will be Inviting some family & friends to my house for dinner. Because they can not afford a christmas meal of their own. so maybe others can bring some one a meal or buy a loft of bread and some milk then pass it on. Let's all do what we can for someone else and someone else will do what they can for us. THANK YOU ALL & GOD BLESS EVERY ONE!

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shoplbd  

can anyone help?

hi, i've really went back and forth about posting this but i'm really at the end of my rope.  i am a self employed mother of 2 and work very hard running a small boutique.  of course as everyone already knows the economy is bad and starting last november my business has taken a nose dive (i'm surprised i've lasted for almost another year)  since then my personal life has also been hurt.  i can no longer afford to pay myself so i can't afford to pay my bills.  rent was due last monday ($500) and my electric is due to be shut off on monday the 26th ($968.77, this is accumulated from several months)  i also found out yesterday that that my car needs a new transmission ($1000).  i don't know what i'm going to do, i'm so scared.  i've always been the one able to help other people, i donate a lot of time, energy, & money to my church, my kids' schools, and many other local charities.  but now i'm in need and i can't seem to find anyone to help.  so hopefully someone on here is.  thanks and god bless.

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mommyneedshelp  

About mommyneedshelp

Hi,I am a single mom with 4 children and one on the way,the father has pretty much just abandonded us and Ive been laid off work for almost 3 months now not to mention my hand has been broken due to domestic violence from the father so its really difficult for me to try to get another job with a broken hand and being 6 months pregnant nowhere wants to hire me.I am really struggling right now and need some help with my bills. Ive applied with all kinds of agencies here where i live for assistance but they all seem to be out of funds. I feel bad even applying but its not like im one of those people who do it all the time I just really need the help right now or my electricity is going to be shut off next week.They have the cold weather rule but that doesnt start til November so I dont know what im supposed to do anymore. I was hoping maybe someone on here could give me some advice or other options on getting some assistance asap.Thanks
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jramella24  

About jramella24

I am a mother of 3 children.. I have 2 girls and one boy. the ages are 5,  3  and 1.

We have nothing for them for christmas this year, we have only the bare minimum for our family.  I can't stand to even see their little faces  when they know that they will have nothing  for christmas.   I'm not looking for a web site, I am looking for someone who would be generous enough to help me provide even just one gift for each of my kids...they are the sweetest kids you will ever meet.  We will most grateful for anyone who is out there who has a big heart to fullfill this wish.  You can reach me at jramella24@yahoo.com.

Thank you to anyone who will be even considering standing with me on giving my children a christmas this year.

Forever Greatful

Jessica

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Ranenec  

About Ranenec

I am a single mother with two children.I was involved in an auto accident last week and it totaled out our car.I now have no car and my hours have now been cut to just two days a week.I am in great need of help with providing christmas for my kids and a new vehical.Please help!

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LDLD  

About LDLD

Hello

I am a mother of two sons, recently divorced (husband abandoned), and have fallen on hard times and just need a little bit of help to get back on my feet.  Have fallen behind in my mortgage and utility bills and desperately need help in the amount of 2000.00

I know times are hard for all but even if someone can help with a portion of the amount I need it would be such a blessing

 Thank you so much for your kindness

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CFSMOM3  

About CFSMOM3

Just to give you of a low down of my situation.
I am a mother of 3 children.
My husband of 14 years of marriage lost his job and left all of us!
I have went to seek government help and I was turned down flat
on the basis that I was a educated white female who can make it in the real world. I am not joking that is what the social worker told me. Not only was I offended. I find it sad that I have never asked for help from anyone or anything a day in my life.

I am not looking for a hand out! I have prided myself in earning what I have. But, with what little I make I find it hard to pay for the car loan and mortgage much less feed my children. Everything is falling behind in payments and getting worse by the weeks! Almost to the point of repossion and foreclosure!

What am I asking for HELP!!! I have no family here and my brother is over seas. If you know anything or any organzations please email and let me know. I am scared to death to lose everything and be homeless it is not for me it is for my children!!!

Please Help!
Thank you in advance,
MOM Of 3

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needachange1  

About needachange1

well where do I began one thing after another has been occuring in my building yet my landlord has failed to fix anything just thurs the dome that holds the hallogen bulbs on in my kitchen gave way hurting me badly my daughter who is 2 missed it by seconds my landlord still has failed to not only ask about us if we are okay but to repair this or anything in the building for that matter I am on dissability and on a fixed income my apartment is hazardous and I am in desperate  need of a security & first months rent so I can leave befor something very bad happens in this falling apart building
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RENEE821  

About RENEE821

HI! MY NAME IS RENEE I AM A NEW MOM TO A LITTLE GIRL MADISON. WE ARE BEING EVICED FROM ARE HOUSE VERY SOON BECAUSE I AM UNABLE TO PAY MY RENT BECAUSE I AM NOW UNEMPLOYED.  EVEN THOW I JUST GAVE BIRTH TWO WEEKS AGO I AM LOOKING FOR A JOB BUT HAVE HAD NO LUCK. I HAVE TRIED TO GET HELP THROW THE STATE AND WAS TOLD THEY CAN NOT HELP ME. I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO ANY MORE .
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depressed mom  

About depressed mom

I am a mom of three wonderful kids.I am in a abusive marriage and trying to find a way out.I am only 30 and on disability so even with child support i do not know how i am going to afford it alone.My kids deserve a better life and i can't stand the thought of losing them.I found a house in another county and do not need a security deposit if i clean it first,but i do need utility deposits and everything to start over. The local charities wont help because they say i am not a local resident.I move on the third of next month and worried my kids will have nothing.If anyone knows of any help out there please let me know.

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nancymomof3  

Family needs Financial help.

I am a mom of 3 kids and currently work from home. I am engaged and my fiance works full time out of the house. This last few years have been very rough on us, we have had to deal with financial issues. They started during my pregnancy and just got worse. We are finally starting to catch up and are working hard to fix are credit. As of right now we are unable to rent to do some past bills. We dont have teh money to pay them of and desperatly need help. Right now we currently need a total of $1000.00 to be caught up. We make about $2500.00 a month currently but with 3 kids its tough. If anyone can help us that would be great any information on what I can do anything please.
Thank you for taking teh time to read this post.

*No matter the amount anyone can offer it would be of help. We would also love to pay it back or pay it forward, we do our best to help people out when we can.  
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mom needs Help2!  

mom needs Help2!

I am an educated single mom of 3 with one coming in Sept. I have two boys ages 14 and 16 and little girl that just turned one year. I work and take care of my children but sence my long time boyfriend left in Jan. 2007 I am slowing sinking. My bill have become to much for me to handle by myself. I am looking for any type of help I can get. Gift cards for food/Gas Cards for Walmart, Meijers. A gift card for a car seat for the new one. Gift cards for Mernards, Lowes, Home Depot to help with house. I have a paypal account so one can help with a  direct transfer to shercon51@hotmail.com I would accept any items you may not need that could be sold on eBay. Any spare change or if you would like to send a check or money order, or baby clothes.  I am in great need at this time. I still work everyday but I am not gaining anything. I have a blood disorder and may soon be on bed rest again and then I will really be in trouble. Let me know if you have any questions or would like a mailing address.

Thanks for your time.

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lookingforasanta  

lookingforasanta

I am a single disabled mom of three children.  My sons are 14 and 10 and my daughter is 14 months.  I am disabled due to a vehicle accident and I now live check to check with my social security.  It is really hard to make ends meet.  A few weeks ago my daughter started having seizures and she was being evaluated because she does not walk yet.  She does not use her right leg.  With all of the testing we discovered she had a stroke before she was born which left her with a brain bleed and scare tissue.  I am exausting what little funds i have to commute her to childrens hospital in DC where she is consistantly going through tests.  This holiday season will be very hard for us especially with the added news.  I raise my kids myself and have no help.  My bestfriend my mother is deceased and I am still coping with her recent death.  I have no family here and would like to find a Santa this year to brighten the holidays for my children.  This to will brighten things for me to see my children happy.  Thank you to anyone who may want to help.

"J"

 

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